- Refunds only for medical reasons. Cancellation within 3 weeks of start: 50% refund
- If you can’t attend, reselling is possible (with consent and communication)
- Smoking & alcohol are allowed — mindful use only
- No sharing of illegal drugs
- We reserve the right to uninvite participants if needed (with refund).
Boundaries & Guidelines
Trust, curiosity, and care are central to Unleashed Desires. The following guidelines are shared agreements that help the space remain safe, respectful, and playful for everyone.
- Consent: All interactions, from a hug to sexual intimacy, must be based on clear, enthusiastic agreement. We follow the FRIES principles:
- free — participation is always voluntary.
- reversible — anyone can change their mind at any time.
- informed — everyone knows what they’re agreeing to.
- enthusiastic — consent is active and positive.
- specific — Consent to one activity doesn’t imply consent to others.
- Conflict: Handle issues maturely, avoid gossip or unnecessary drama.
- Substances: Drink responsibly, know your limits, and do not provide substances to others.
- Noise, sleep & hygiene: Maintain personal hygiene, respect others’ sleep, and be mindful of your surroundings.
- Photos & documentation: Always ask for consent before taking photos or videos. Be mindful of group pressure when asking for consent.
- Confidentiality: Confidentiality is essential. Please be mindful when sharing stories or experiences involving others, and protect each other’s privacy.
- Self-care: Support is available through check-ins, community care, and designated angels, but participants remain primarily responsible for monitoring and respecting their own limits.
Participants who repeatedly create unnecessary drama, ignore boundaries, or act in ways that conflict with the values of sex-positivity, consent, or ethical non-monogamy are not a good fit for this event.
Safer sex & responsibility
Practicing safer sex is expected and encouraged. A basic supply of barriers (such as condoms, lube and gloves) will be available, but participants are expected to bring whatever they might personally need or prefer. We rely on everyone’s own responsibility regarding sexual health including using protection, being vaccinated where relevant, getting tested regularly, seeking treatment when needed, and communicating transparently with sex partners.